Now this does NOT mean that God doesn't love the homosexual...He does, and
He wan't them to REPENT (turn away) from that which is NOT pleasing in His
sight. Can a homosexual be saved? Yes, emphatically yes....IF they will
repent (turn away) from that which is wrong. It isn't the sinner that is
hated, it is what they do (the sin). Is there such a thing as a Christian
Homosexual? No. You can either be a Christian, or you can be a homosexual.
To be both is oxymoronic.
How do I know I'm saved?
Because God said so. IF you have confessed with your mouth (made public
statement) the Lord Jesus Christ, and you believe (know and are willing to
ACT on it) that God raised Jesus from the dead, then you are saved. "Yeah,
but what if I don't feel like it"? What are you supposed to feel like? The
Word of God doesn't say we're supposed to get heartburn, or turn
cartwheels, or turn blue, or anything like that. We're just supposed to
believe. Jesus said "blessed are you (talking to the disciples) who have
seen, but MORE BLESSED are those who have not seen, AND YET BELIEVE".
"Yeah, ok, but what if I don't act like I'm saved"? Well, then you might
have a serious problem, and need to take a long hard look at whether or not
you REALLY believe. While we are saved by grace (an undeserved gift), and
that through faith (life changing belief), and NOT of works, there is still
one thing that is true, true, true....if you really believe, then you will
be willing to do whatever the Lord asks of you....and that means you will
work, for His Glory, for His Kingdom, and for the salvation of every one
you can find.
While salvation is a life-changing experience, it is not tied to an
emotional experience, although it can be quite emotional. When I first
realized, fully, what God had done for me through Jesus, I couldn't stop
crying. Crying with joy at the thought of forgiveness and eternal
life...sobbing with pain over the time that I had wasted in ignoring Him,
grinning from ear to ear over the weight that I no longer carried on my
back. But now, many years down the road, while I still cry sometimes when I
look at my failures, and smile at His successes, I have peace, knowing that
because He said I was saved, I am saved....and for no other reason. 'Sides,
that, He can't lie!
How does a Christian handle temptation?
Well, there are several ways to do it. First, how receptive are you to
discipline? If you don't like it, then the best way is to consider the
consequences on both the spiritual and physical planes. God doesn't want
you to fall into sin through temptation, so He will always "urge" you to
resist. If you don't, then the "urgings" and conviction of having done
something wrong will increase. Then, there is the physical consequence,
which would depend entirely on what it is that you did wrong. Either way,
there are consequences to be dealt with. As to how best to resist,
scripture tells us "resist the devil and he will flee from you". To help
with this, God has given us His Holy Spirit, to remind us of what is right
and wrong, to strengthen us to resist, and an unction to be able to look
beyond the immediate results (but it looks, tastes, feels GOOOOOD), and
know that in the long run it isn't good for us. There is also the "armor"
of God, as Paul reminds us in Ephesians 6:13, which is so that we might
"...be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand".
Q: What would stop me from being raptured?
A: Not being born-again. You must be born-again. Jesus told us in the Bible the only way to the Father is through the son. You must believe that Jesus is the son of God. That he died for you on the cross, and that he was resurrected on the third day. You must except him as your personal savior, and ask him to come into your heart. Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.