Spiritual
Direction provides a safe, confidential space in which a person can
explore God’s invitation to a deeper relationship. The primary focus
is recognizing God at the heart of daily life.
What is Spiritual Direction?
There have
been several different types or models of spiritual direction
throughout the centuries. Some of us, especially those of us who
have read the lives of the saints, have various ideas of what
spiritual direction has entailed in the past. There have been
relationships of spiritual guidance similar to father/son,
teacher/student, master/servant, and confessor/penitent (such as is
still common when spiritual advice is given in the confessional).
There were also examples in the lives of the saints of spiritual
friendships. Modern spiritual direction most often refers to a
relationship which is more like spiritual companionship or
friendship where the director is present as a spiritual friend who
listens with the intent of helping the directee recognize how the
Holy Spirit is leading and working in one's life. The emphasis is on
helping the directee develop a good prayer life and relationship
with God. The director does not tell the directee what to do in a
way that requires obedience. The directee has the final decision as
to what to do in her spiritual life. Questions are asked to get to
know the directee, her present life circumstances and spiritual
life.
The goal is
to help the directee to discern how the Holy Spirit is personally
leading, recognizing that God has a special and distinct plan for
each person's life and everyone is not called exactly the same way.
In this sense, there are no better or worse callings or vocations,
as the best calling for an individual is God's plan for that person
in particular no matter what it might be. Like scripture says, there
are many members of the body and all are good and necessary. The
idea is to determine and encourage the directee to be the unique
person that God made them to be, doing the things that God is
personally asking of each of us.
While God has a
unique calling and plan for each person and gives individuals
different talents, gifts and vocations (and trials and sufferings)
as just described, there is also the recognition that God has
certain standards and principles that apply to everyone. Jesus gave
us a way to know these truths when He founded the Catholic Church to
spread his message. Jesus told the apostles, "Whoever hears you,
hears me." This still applies today to the pope (and bishops) who
are direct successors of the early apostles through the laying on of
hands throughout the centuries. He promised to remain with the
Church until the end of time and to send the Holy Spirit to lead
until all truth. He gave us the Bible which is the inerrant Word of
God. He also gave us various saints to teach us how to be closer to
God especially saints who have been spiritual directors themselves
such as St. Teresa of Avila and St. John of the Cross.
Besides utilizing
the teachings of the Church, Bible and Saints for guidance on
general principles, there is another dymanic that sometimes happens
in meeting with a personal spiritual director. When the director and
directee have the intention of prayerfully coming together in God's
presence to discern the guidance of the Holy Spirit, it is not only
the two people joining together, but Jesus himself there with them.
As Jesus said, "For where two or three are gathered together in my
name, there am I in the midst of them.” (Matt 18:20)
Taken from:
http://www.catholicspiritualdirection.org
Interested in
Spiritual Direction? Call Fr. Hall at 483-2317
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